use enhanced basic regular expressions on macOS

use enhanced basic regular expressions on macOS

When 1819ad327b (grep: fix multibyte regex handling under macOS,
2022-08-26) started to use the native regex library instead of Git's
own (compat/regex/), it lost support for alternation in basic
regular expressions.

Bring it back by enabling the flag REG_ENHANCED on macOS when
compiling basic regular expressions.

Reported-by: Marco Nenciarini <marco.nenciarini@enterprisedb.com>
Suggested-by: Jeff King <peff@peff.net>
Signed-off-by: René Scharfe <l.s.r@web.de>
Signed-off-by: Junio C Hamano <gitster@pobox.com>