virtio: add vhost support for virtio devices

virtio: add vhost support for virtio devices

This patch adds a get_vhost() callback function for VirtIODevices that
returns the device's corresponding vhost_dev structure, if the vhost
device is running. This patch also adds a vhost_started flag for
VirtIODevices.

Previously, a VirtIODevice wouldn't be able to tell if its corresponding
vhost device was active or not.

Signed-off-by: Jonah Palmer <jonah.palmer@oracle.com>
Message-Id: <1648819405-25696-3-git-send-email-jonah.palmer@oracle.com>
Reviewed-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>