terminal-util: rework acquire_terminal()

terminal-util: rework acquire_terminal()

This modernizes acquire_terminal() in a couple of ways:

1. The three boolean arguments are replaced by a flags parameter, that
   should be more descriptive in what it does.

2. We now properly handle inotify queue overruns

3. We use _cleanup_ for closing the fds now, to shorten the code quite a
   bit.

Behaviour should not be altered by this.