shared/install: optionally cache the preset list

shared/install: optionally cache the preset list

When doing list-unit-files with --root, we would re-read the preset
list for every unit. This uses a cache to only do it once. The time
for list-unit-files goes down by about ~30%.

unit_file_query_preset() is also called from src/core/. This patch does not
touch that path, since the saving there are smaller, since preset status is
only read on demand over dbus, and caching would be more complicated.