kernel-interface: Add feature to indicate if query_sa() returns last use time

kernel-interface: Add feature to indicate if query_sa() returns last use time

Currently supported by libipsec and PF_KEY on macOS (FreeBSD, like Linux,
reports the time the SA was first used in sadb_lifetime_usetime - it also
triggers rekeyings based on that, which Linux doesn't, it also triggers
them if an SA is never used).