tree-wide: use memmem_safe()

tree-wide: use memmem_safe()

Let's be paranoid and do something useful if we operate with empty
haystack/needle. This doesn't actually fix anything, as the places as
far as I can see check for non-emptyness already beforehand, but I will
sleep safer at night, if we don't even allow the trap to be fallen in,
ever, even if the code is changed sooner or later.