Consolidate sequence counter incrementing code

Consolidate sequence counter incrementing code

The sequence counter was incremented in numerous different ways in
numerous different locations. We introduce a single function to do this
inside the record layer.

Reviewed-by: Richard Levitte <levitte@openssl.org>
Reviewed-by: Tomas Mraz <tomas@openssl.org>
Reviewed-by: Hugo Landau <hlandau@openssl.org>
(Merged from https://github.com/openssl/openssl/pull/19424)