object API users + docs: check <0, not !0 with check_object_signature()

object API users + docs: check <0, not !0 with check_object_signature()

Change those users of the object API that misused
check_object_signature() by assuming it returned any non-zero when the
OID didn't match the expected value to check <0 instead. In practice
all of this code worked before, but it wasn't consistent with rest of
the users of the API.

Let's also clarify what the <0 return value means in API docs.

Signed-off-by: Ævar Arnfjörð Bjarmason <avarab@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Junio C Hamano <gitster@pobox.com>