core: when loading .wants and .requires, follow the same logic as .d conf dropins

core: when loading .wants and .requires, follow the same logic as .d conf dropins

Essentially, instead of sequentially adding deps based on all symlinks
encountered in .wants and .requires dirs for each name and each unit file load
path, iteratate over the load paths and unit names gathering symlinks, then
order them based on priority, and then iterate over the final list, adding
dependencies.

This patch doesn't change the logic too much, except that the order in which
dependencies are applied might be different. It wasn't defined before, so that
not really a change. Adding filtering on the symlinks is left for later
patches.