unpack-trees: provide warnings on sparse updates for unmerged paths too

unpack-trees: provide warnings on sparse updates for unmerged paths too

When sparse-checkout runs to update the list of sparsity patterns, it
gives warnings if it can't remove paths from the working tree because
those files have dirty changes.  Add a similar warning for unmerged
paths as well.

Reviewed-by: Derrick Stolee <dstolee@microsoft.com>
Signed-off-by: Elijah Newren <newren@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Junio C Hamano <gitster@pobox.com>