libstdc++: Replace dg-options "-std=c++20" with dg-add-options strict_std
The testsuite will automatically select C++20 for these tests now, and
removing the hardcoded -std option allows them to be tested for C++23
and C++26 as well. Because they test a problem seen with -std=c++20 add
the new { dg-add-options strict_std } directive so that the test runner
uses -std=c++NN not -std=gnu++NN.