Check for __clause_element__() in ORM insert/update

Check for __clause_element__() in ORM insert/update

ORM attributes can now be assigned any object that is has a
``__clause_element__()`` attribute, which will result in inline
SQL the way any :class:`.ClauseElement` class does.  This covers other
mapped attributes not otherwise transformed by further expression
constructs.

As part of this, it was considered that we could add
__clause_element__() to ClauseElement, however this causes endless loops
in a "while" pattern and this pattern has been identified in third
party libraries.  Add a test to ensure we never make that change.

Change-Id: I9e15b3f1c4883fd3909acbf7dc81d034c6e3ce1d
Fixes: #3802