MEDIUM: session: count the frontend's connections at a single place

MEDIUM: session: count the frontend's connections at a single place

There are several places where we see feconn++, feconn--, totalconn++ and
an increment on the frontend's number of connections and connection rate.
This is done exactly once per session in each direction, so better take
care of this counter in the session and simplify the callers. At least it
ensures a better symmetry. It also ensures consistency as till now the
lua/spoe/peers frontend didn't have these counters properly set, which can
be useful at least for troubleshooting.