BUILD: hpack: make sure the hpack table can still be built standalone

BUILD: hpack: make sure the hpack table can still be built standalone

Recent commit 2bdcc70fa7 ("MEDIUM: hpack: use a pool for the hpack table")
made the hpack code finally use a pool with very unintrusive code that was
assumed to be trivial enough to adjust if the code needed to be reused
outside of haproxy. Unfortunately the code in contrib/hpack already uses
it and broke the oss-fuzz tests as it doesn't build anymore.

This patch adds an HPACK_STANDALONE macro to decide if we should use the
pools or malloc+free. The resulting macros are called hpack_alloc() and
hpack_free() respectively, and the size must be passed into the pool
itself.