reset_head(): make default_reflog_action optional

reset_head(): make default_reflog_action optional

This parameter is only needed when a ref is going to be updated and
the caller does not pass an explicit reflog message. Callers that are
only discarding uncommitted changes in the working tree such as such
as "rebase --skip" or create_autostash() do not update any refs so
should not have to worry about passing this parameter.

This change is not intended to have any user visible changes. The
pointer comparison between `oid` and `&head_oid` checks that the
caller did not pass an oid to be checked out. As no callers pass
RESET_HEAD_RUN_POST_CHECKOUT_HOOK without passing an oid there are
no changes to when the post-checkout hook is run. As update_ref() only
updates the ref if the oid passed to it differs from the current ref
there are no changes to when HEAD is updated.

Signed-off-by: Phillip Wood <phillip.wood@dunelm.org.uk>
Signed-off-by: Junio C Hamano <gitster@pobox.com>