tools: ynl: support creating non-genl sockets

tools: ynl: support creating non-genl sockets

Classic netlink has static family IDs specified in YAML,
there is no family name -> ID lookup. Support providing
the ID info to the library via the generated struct and
make library use it. Since NETLINK_ROUTE is ID 0 we need
an extra boolean to indicate classic_id is to be used.

Reviewed-by: Jacob Keller <jacob.e.keller@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Donald Hunter <donald.hunter@gmail.com>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20250410014658.782120-8-kuba@kernel.org
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>