usage.c: add a die_message() routine

usage.c: add a die_message() routine

We have code in various places that would like to call die(), but
wants to defer the exit(128) it would invoke, e.g. to print an
additional message, or adjust the exit code. Add a die_message()
helper routine to bridge this gap in the API.

Functionally this behaves just like the error() routine, except it'll
print a "fatal: " prefix, and it will return with 128 instead of -1,
this is so that caller can pass the return value to "exit()", instead
of having to hardcode "exit(128)".

Note that as with the other routines the "die_message_builtin" needs
to return "void" and otherwise conform to the "report_fn"
signature.

As we'll see in a subsequent commit callers will want to replace
e.g. their default "die_routine" with a "die_message_routine".

For now we're just adding the routine and making die_builtin() in
usage.c itself use it. In order to do that we need to add a
get_die_message_routine() function, which works like the other
get_*_routine() functions in usage.c. There is no
set_die_message_rotine(), as it hasn't been needed yet. We can add it
if we ever need it.

Signed-off-by: Ævar Arnfjörð Bjarmason <avarab@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Junio C Hamano <gitster@pobox.com>