am: change safe_to_abort()'s not rewinding error into a warning

am: change safe_to_abort()'s not rewinding error into a warning

The error message tells the user that something went terribly wrong
and the --abort could not be performed. But the --abort is performed,
only without rewinding. By simply changing the error into a warning,
we indicate the user that she must not try something like
"git am --abort --force", instead she just has to check the HEAD.

Signed-off-by: Stephan Beyer <s-beyer@gmx.net>
Signed-off-by: Junio C Hamano <gitster@pobox.com>