add dataclasses callable and apply annotations more strictly

add dataclasses callable and apply annotations more strictly

Added new parameter ``dataclasses_callable`` to both the
:class:`_orm.MappedAsDataclass` class as well as the
:meth:`_orm.registry.mapped_as_dataclass` method which allows an
alternative callable to Python ``dataclasses.dataclass`` to be used in
order to produce dataclasses. The use case here is to drop in Pydantic's
dataclass function instead. Adjustments have been made to the mixin support
added for :ticket:`9179` in version 2.0.1 so that the ``__annotations__``
collection of the mixin is rewritten to not include the
:class:`_orm.Mapped` container, in the same way as occurs with mapped
classes, so that the Pydantic dataclasses constructor is not exposed to
unknown types.

Fixes: #9266
Change-Id: Ia0fab6f20b93a5cb853799dcf1b70a0386837c14