MINOR: rawsock: introduce CO_RFL_TRY_HARDER to detect closures on complete reads

MINOR: rawsock: introduce CO_RFL_TRY_HARDER to detect closures on complete reads

Normally, when reading a full buffer, or exactly the requested size, it
is not really possible to know if the peer had closed immediately after,
and usually we don't care. There's a problematic case, though, which is
with SSL: the SSL layer reads in small chunks of a few bytes, and can
consume a client_hello this way, then start computation without knowing
yet that the client has aborted. In order to permit knowing more, we now
introduce a new read flag, CO_RFL_TRY_HARDER, which says that if we've
read up to the permitted limit and the flag is set, then we attempt one
extra byte using MSG_PEEK to detect whether the connection was closed
immediately after that content or not. The first use case will obviously
be related to SSL and client_hello, but it might possibly also make sense
on HTTP responses to detect a pending FIN at the end of a response (e.g.
if a close was already advertised).