MINOR: fd: merge the read and write error bits into RW error

MINOR: fd: merge the read and write error bits into RW error

We always set them both, which makes sense since errors at the FD level
indicate a terminal condition for the socket that cannot be recovered.
Usually this is detected via a write error, but sometimes such an error
may asynchronously be reported on the read side. Let's simplify this
using only the write bit and calling it RW since it's used like this
everywhere, and leave the R bit spare for future use.