MINOR: mux: add flags to describe a mux's capabilities

MINOR: mux: add flags to describe a mux's capabilities

This new field will be used to describe certain properties of some
muxes. For now we only add MX_FL_CLEAN_ABRT to indicate that a mux
is able to unambiguously report aborts using CS_FL_ERROR contrary
to others who may only report it via a read0. This will be used to
improve handling of the abortonclose option with H2. Other flags
may come later to report multiplexing capabilities or not, support
of client/server sides etc.