MINOR: listeners: make listeners count consistent with reality

MINOR: listeners: make listeners count consistent with reality

Some places call delete_listener() then decrement the number of
listeners and jobs. At least one other place calls delete_listener()
without doing so, but since it's in deinit(), it's harmless and cannot
risk to cause zombie processes to survive. Given that the number of
listeners and jobs is incremented when creating the listeners, it's
much more logical to symmetrically decrement them when deleting such
listeners.