write_riemann plugin: use reference counting to when freeing user data.

write_riemann plugin: use reference counting to when freeing user data.

While reference counting was present previously, it had problems:

*   The reference passed to `plugin_register_flush()` was not counted.
*   If a flush plugin was registered, `free_func` was set to NULL but
    the reference passed to `plugin_register_notification()` was still
    counted, meaning in that case the counter never went to zero.
*   Mutexes must be unlocked when calling `pthread_mutex_destroy()`.
*   The code limped on after an error, returning a failure eventually.
    This is unnecessarily complex control flow that has been simplified.