libeth: xsk: add XSkFQ refill and XSk wakeup helpers

libeth: xsk: add XSkFQ refill and XSk wakeup helpers

XSkFQ refill is pretty generic across the drivers minus FQ descriptor
filling and can easily be unified with one inline callback.
XSk wakeup is usually not, but here, instead of commonly used
"SW interrupts", I picked firing an IPI. In most tests, it showed better
performance; it also provides better control for userspace on which CPU
will handle the xmit, as SW interrupts honor IRQ affinity no matter
which core produces XSk xmit descs (while XDPSQs are associated 1:1
with cores having the same ID).

Signed-off-by: Alexander Lobakin <aleksander.lobakin@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Tony Nguyen <anthony.l.nguyen@intel.com>