qemu: convert monitor to use the per-VM event loop

qemu: convert monitor to use the per-VM event loop

This converts the QEMU monitor APIs to use the per-VM
event loop, which involves switching from virEvent APIs
to GMainContext / GSource APIs.

A GSocket is used as a convenient way to create a GSource
for a socket, but is not yet used for actual I/O.

Reviewed-by: Michal Privoznik <mprivozn@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Daniel P. Berrangé <berrange@redhat.com>