migration: Cleanup incoming migration setup state change
Destination QEMU can setup incoming ports for two purposes: either a fresh
new incoming migration, in which QEMU will switch to SETUP for channel
establishment, or a paused postcopy migration, in which QEMU will stay in
POSTCOPY_PAUSED until kicking off the RECOVER phase.
Now the state machine worked on dest node for the latter, only because
migrate_set_state() implicitly will become a noop if the current state
check failed. It wasn't clear at all.
Clean it up by providing a helper migration_incoming_state_setup() doing
proper checks over current status. Postcopy-paused will be explicitly
checked now, and then we can bail out for unknown states.