bpo-38631: Replace Py_FatalError() with _PyObject_ASSERT_FAILED_MSG() (GH-18258)

bpo-38631: Replace Py_FatalError() with _PyObject_ASSERT_FAILED_MSG() (GH-18258)

Replace Py_FatalError() with _PyObject_ASSERT_FAILED_MSG() in
object.c and typeobject.c to also dump the involved Python object on
a fatal error. It should ease debug when such fatal error occurs.

If the double linked list is inconsistent, _Py_ForgetReference() no
longer dumps previous and next objects in the fatal error, it now
only dumps the current object. It ensures that the error message
is displayed even if dumping the object does crash Python.

Enhance _Py_ForgetReference() error messages;
_PyObject_ASSERT_FAILED_MSG() logs the "_Py_ForgetReference" function
name.