qemu-nbd: Allow users to adjust handshake limit

qemu-nbd: Allow users to adjust handshake limit

Although defaulting the handshake limit to 10 seconds was a nice QoI
change to weed out intentionally slow clients, it can interfere with
integration testing done with manual NBD_OPT commands over 'nbdsh
--opt-mode'.  Expose a command line option to allow the user to alter
the timeout away from the default.  This option is unlikely to be used
in enough scenarios to warrant a short option letter.

The option --handshake-limit intentionally differs from the name of
the constant added in commit fb1c2aaa98 (limit instead of max_secs)
and the QMP name to be added in the next commit; this is because
typing a longer command-line name is undesirable and there is
sufficient --help text to document the units.

Signed-off-by: Eric Blake <eblake@redhat.com>
Message-ID: <20250203222722.650694-5-eblake@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Vladimir Sementsov-Ogievskiy <vsementsov@yandex-team.ru>