vfio/migration: Add x-migration-load-config-after-iter VFIO property

vfio/migration: Add x-migration-load-config-after-iter VFIO property

This property allows configuring whether to start the config load only
after all iterables were loaded, during non-iterables loading phase.
Such interlocking is required for ARM64 due to this platform VFIO
dependency on interrupt controller being loaded first.

The property defaults to AUTO, which means ON for ARM, OFF for other
platforms.

Reviewed-by: Fabiano Rosas <farosas@suse.de>
Reviewed-by: Avihai Horon <avihaih@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Maciej S. Szmigiero <maciej.szmigiero@oracle.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/qemu-devel/0e03c60dbc91f9a9ba2516929574df605b7dfcb4.1752589295.git.maciej.szmigiero@oracle.com
Signed-off-by: Cédric Le Goater <clg@redhat.com>