MINOR: backend: without ->connect(), allow to pick another thread's connection

MINOR: backend: without ->connect(), allow to pick another thread's connection

If less connections than threads are established on a reverse-http gateway
and these servers have a non-nul pool-min-conn, then conn_backend_get()
will refrain from picking available connections from other threads. But
this makes no sense for protocols for which there is no ->connect(),
since there's no way the current thread will manage to establish its own
connection. For such situations we should always accept to use another
thread's connection. That's precisely what this patch does.