vhost-user: fix duplicated notifier MR init

vhost-user: fix duplicated notifier MR init

In case of device resume after suspend, VQ notifier MR still valid.
Duplicated registrations explode memory block list and slow down device
resume.

Fixes: 44866521bd6e ("vhost-user: support registering external host notifiers")
Cc: tiwei.bie@intel.com
Cc: qemu-stable@nongnu.org
Cc: Yuwei Zhang <zhangyuwei.9149@bytedance.com>
Signed-off-by: Xueming Li <xuemingl@nvidia.com>
Message-Id: <20211008080215.590292-1-xuemingl@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
(cherry picked from commit a1ed9ef1de87c3e86ff68589604298ec90875a14)
Signed-off-by: Michael Roth <michael.roth@amd.com>