dont mutate bind_arguments incoming dictionary

dont mutate bind_arguments incoming dictionary

The :paramref:`_orm.Session.execute.bind_arguments` dictionary is no longer
mutated when passed to :meth:`_orm.Session.execute` and similar; instead,
it's copied to an internal dictionary for state changes. Among other
things, this fixes and issue where the "clause" passed to the
:meth:`_orm.Session.get_bind` method would be incorrectly referring to the
:class:`_sql.Select` construct used for the "fetch" synchronization
strategy, when the actual query being emitted was a :class:`_dml.Delete` or
:class:`_dml.Update`. This would interfere with recipes for "routing
sessions".

Fixes: #8614
Change-Id: I8d237449485c9bbf41db2b29a34b6136aa43b7bc