DEBUG: connection: mark the closed FDs with a value that is easier to detect

DEBUG: connection: mark the closed FDs with a value that is easier to detect

Setting an FD to -1 when closed isn't the most easily noticeable thing
to do when we're chasing accidental reuse of a stale file descriptor.
Instead set it to that large a negative value that it will overflow the
fdtab and provide an analysable core at the moment the issue happens.
Care was taken to ensure it doesn't overflow nor change sign on 32-bit
machines when multiplied by fdtab, and that it also remains negative for
the various checks that exist. The value equals 0xFDDEADFD which happens
to be easily spotted in a debugger.