TDLS: Fix key configuration with current mac80211

TDLS: Fix key configuration with current mac80211

A kernel commit ("mac80211: fix FT roaming") started validating that the
STA entry is marked associated when adding a key. While this is needed
to fix some FT use cases with hardware crypto, it has a side effect of
breaking TDLS key configuration. Work around this by trying to
re-configure the key for the direct link after the STA entry has been
set with all information. In addition, try to tear down the link if
anything goes wrong in key configuration (if both attempts fail) or
enabling the link in the driver.

Signed-hostap: Jouni Malinen <j@w1.fi>