MINOR: stconn: report that a buffer allocation succeeded

MINOR: stconn: report that a buffer allocation succeeded

We used to have two states for the channel's input buffer used by the SC,
NEED_BUFF or not, flipped by sc_need_buff() and sc_have_buff(). We want to
have a 3rd state, indicating that we've just got a desired buffer. Let's
add an HAVE_BUFF flag that is set by sc_have_buff() and that is cleared by
sc_used_buff(). This way by looking at HAVE_BUFF we know that we're coming
back from the allocation callback and that the offered buffer has not yet
been used.