BUG/MAJOR: server: do not delete srv referenced by session

BUG/MAJOR: server: do not delete srv referenced by session

A server can only be deleted if there is no elements which reference it.
This is taken care via srv_check_for_deletion(), most notably for active
and idle connections.

A special case occurs for connections directly managed by a session.
This is for so-called private connections, when using http-reuse never
or H2 + http-reuse safe for example. In this case. server does not
account these connections into its idle lists. This caused a bug as the
server is deleted despite the session still being able to access it.

To properly fix this, add a new referencing element into the server for
these session connections. A mt_list has been chosen for this. On
default http-reuse, private connections are typically not used so it
won't make any difference. If using H2 servers, or more generally when
dealing with private connections, insert/delete should typically occur
only once per session lifetime so impact on performance should be
minimal.

This should be backported up to 2.4. Note that srv_check_for_deletion()
was introduced in 3.0 dev tree. On backport, the extra condition in it
should be placed in cli_parse_delete_server() instead.