[infiniband] Pass address vector in receive completions

[infiniband] Pass address vector in receive completions

Receive completion handlers now get passed an address vector
containing the information extracted from the packet headers
(including the GRH, if present), and only the payload remains in the
I/O buffer.

This breaks the symmetry between transmit and receive completions, so
remove the ib_completer_t type and use an ib_completion_queue_operations
structure instead.

Rename the "destination QPN" and "destination LID" fields in struct
ib_address_vector to reflect its new dual usage.

Since the ib_completion structure now contains only an IB status code,
("syndrome") replace it with a generic gPXE integer status code.