MINOR: connection: remove an unwelcome dependency on struct stream

MINOR: connection: remove an unwelcome dependency on struct stream

There was a reference to struct stream in conn_free() for the case
where we're freeing a connection that doesn't have a mux attached.
For now we know it's always a stream, and we only need to do it to
put a NULL in s->si[1].end.

Let's do it better by storing the pointer to si[1].end in the context
and specifying that this pointer is always nulled if the mux is null.
This way it allows a connection to detach itself from wherever it's
being used. Maybe we could even get rid of the condition on the mux.