aarch64: Fix DT_RELR support with discarded sections

aarch64: Fix DT_RELR support with discarded sections

In case of discarded sections, via /DISCARD/ or .gnu.linkonce,
relr relocation accounting was wrong.  This broke building linux.

The issue was that the *_relocate_section logic was copied to
record_relr_non_got_relocs to find the relative relocs that can
be packed, however *_relocate_section is not called on sections
that are discarded, while record_relr_non_got_relocs is called
for all input sections. The fix is to filter out the discarded
sections with the same logic that is used to count non-GOT
relocs in *_late_size_sections for local symbols earlier.
Use the discarded_section helper in both cases to clarify the
intent and handle all corner-cases consistently.

GOT relocations are affected too if all sections are discarded
that reference the GOT entry of a particular symbol, however
this can cause unused GOT entries independently of DT_RELR, and
the only difference with DT_RELR is that a relative reloc may be
emitted instead of a R_AARCH64_NONE for the unused GOT entry
which is acceptable. A proper fix would require redoing the GOT
refcounting after we know the discarded sections, see bug 31850.