KVM: x86/mmu: Refactor low level rmap helpers to prep for walking w/o mmu_lock

KVM: x86/mmu: Refactor low level rmap helpers to prep for walking w/o mmu_lock

Refactor the pte_list and rmap code to always read and write rmap_head->val
exactly once, e.g. by collecting changes in a local variable and then
propagating those changes back to rmap_head->val as appropriate.  This will
allow implementing a per-rmap rwlock (of sorts) by adding a LOCKED bit into
the rmap value alongside the MANY bit.

Signed-off-by: James Houghton <jthoughton@google.com>
Acked-by: Yu Zhao <yuzhao@google.com>
Reviewed-by: James Houghton <jthoughton@google.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20250204004038.1680123-9-jthoughton@google.com
Signed-off-by: Sean Christopherson <seanjc@google.com>