virtio: merge virtio_queue_aio_set_host_notifier_handler with virtio_queue_set_aio

virtio: merge virtio_queue_aio_set_host_notifier_handler with virtio_queue_set_aio

Eliminating the reentrancy is actually a nice thing that we can do
with the API that Michael proposed, so let's make it first class.
This also hides the complex assign/set_handler conventions from
callers of virtio_queue_aio_set_host_notifier_handler, which in
fact was always called with assign=true.

Reviewed-by: Cornelia Huck <cornelia.huck@de.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: Paolo Bonzini <pbonzini@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>