net/smc: Decouple sf and attached send_buf in smc_loopback

net/smc: Decouple sf and attached send_buf in smc_loopback

Before this patch there was the following assumption in
smc_loopback.c>smc_lo_move_data():
sf (signalling flag) == 0 : data is already in an attached target dmb
sf == 1 : data is not yet in the target dmb

This is true for the 2 callers in smc client
smcd_cdc_msg_send() : sf=1
smcd_tx_rdma_writes() : sf=0
but should not be a general assumption.

Add a bool to struct smc_buf_desc to indicate whether an SMC-D sndbuf_desc
is an attached buffer. Don't call move_data() for attached send_buffers,
because it is not necessary.

Move the data in smc_lo_move_data() if len != 0 and signal when requested.

Signed-off-by: Alexandra Winter <wintera@linux.ibm.com>
Reviewed-by: Mahanta Jambigi <mjambigi@linux.ibm.com>
Reviewed-by: Dust Li <dust.li@linux.alibaba.com>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20250918110500.1731261-3-wintera@linux.ibm.com
Signed-off-by: Paolo Abeni <pabeni@redhat.com>