mptcp: fix subflow rcvbuf adjust

mptcp: fix subflow rcvbuf adjust

The mptcp PM can add subflow to the conn_list before tcp_init_transfer().
Calling tcp_rcvbuf_grow() on such subflow is not correct as later
init will overwrite the update.

Fix the issue calling tcp_rcvbuf_grow() only after init buffer
initialization.

Fixes: e118cdc34dd1 ("mptcp: rcvbuf auto-tuning improvement")
Signed-off-by: Paolo Abeni <pabeni@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Matthieu Baerts (NGI0) <matttbe@kernel.org>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20251028-net-tcp-recv-autotune-v3-1-74b43ba4c84c@kernel.org
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>