src: add rule batching support

src: add rule batching support

This patch allows nft to put all rule update messages into one
single batch that is sent to the kernel if `-f' option is used.
In order to provide fine grain error reporting, I decided to
to correlate the netlink message sequence number with the
correspoding command sequence number, which is the same. Thus,
nft can identify what rules trigger problems inside a batch
and report them accordingly.

Moreover, to avoid playing buffer size games at batch building
stage, ie. guess what is the final size of the batch for this
ruleset update will be, this patch collects batch pages that
are converted to iovec to ensure linearization when the batch
is sent to the kernel. This reduces the amount of unnecessary
memory usage that is allocated for the batch.

This patch uses the libmnl nlmsg batching infrastructure and it
requires the kernel patch entitled (netfilter: nfnetlink: add batch
support and use it from nf_tables).

Signed-off-by: Pablo Neira Ayuso <pablo@netfilter.org>