KVM: Allow lockless walk of SPTEs when handing aging mmu_notifier event

KVM: Allow lockless walk of SPTEs when handing aging mmu_notifier event

It is possible to correctly do aging without taking the KVM MMU lock,
or while taking it for read; add a Kconfig to let architectures do so.
Architectures that select KVM_MMU_LOCKLESS_AGING are responsible for
correctness.

Suggested-by: Yu Zhao <yuzhao@google.com>
Signed-off-by: James Houghton <jthoughton@google.com>
Reviewed-by: David Matlack <dmatlack@google.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20250204004038.1680123-3-jthoughton@google.com
[sean: massage shortlog+changelog, fix Kconfig goof and shorten name]
Signed-off-by: Sean Christopherson <seanjc@google.com>