MINOR: event_hdl: add event_hdl_async_equeue_size() function

MINOR: event_hdl: add event_hdl_async_equeue_size() function

Use event_hdl_async_equeue_size() in advanced async task handler to
get the near real-time event queue size.

By near real-time, you should understand that the queue size is not
updated during element insertion/removal, but shortly before insertion
and shortly after removal, so the size should reflect the approximate
queue size at a given time but should definitely not be used as a
unique source of truth.

If 68e692da0 ("MINOR: event_hdl: add event handler base api")
is being backported, then this commit should be backported with it.