- rework ColumnAdapter and ORMAdapter to only provide the features

- rework ColumnAdapter and ORMAdapter to only provide the features
we're now using; rework them fully so that their behavioral contract
is consistent regarding adapter.traverse() vs. adapter.columns[],
add a full suite of tests including advanced wrapping scenarios
previously only covered by test/orm/test_froms.py and
test/orm/inheritance/test_relationships.py
- identify several cases where label._order_by_label_clause would be
corrupted, e.g. due to adaption or annotation separately
- add full tests for #3148