grep: move pattern-type bits support to top-level grep.[ch]

grep: move pattern-type bits support to top-level grep.[ch]

Switching between -E/-G/-P/-F correctly needs a lot more than just
flipping opt->regflags bit these days, and we have a nice helper
function buried in builtin/grep.c for the sole use of "git grep".

Extract it so that "log --grep" family can also use it.

Signed-off-by: Junio C Hamano <gitster@pobox.com>