virtiofsd: prevent FUSE_INIT/FUSE_DESTROY races

virtiofsd: prevent FUSE_INIT/FUSE_DESTROY races

When running with multiple threads it can be tricky to handle
FUSE_INIT/FUSE_DESTROY in parallel with other request types or in
parallel with themselves.  Serialize FUSE_INIT and FUSE_DESTROY so that
malicious clients cannot trigger race conditions.

Signed-off-by: Stefan Hajnoczi <stefanha@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Masayoshi Mizuma <m.mizuma@jp.fujitsu.com>
Signed-off-by: Dr. David Alan Gilbert <dgilbert@redhat.com>